Biblical Promises Regarding Family Emotional Wholeness

Biblical promises regarding family emotional wholeness are often rooted in the concept of God's covenant faithfulness and the blessings that flow from obedience to Him. These promises extend to the well-being and spiritual heritage of future generations.

One foundational promise is found in Acts 2:39, which states, "For the promise is to you, and to your children, and to all who are far off, even as many as the Lord our God will call to himself" ^[5]. This verse, spoken by Peter, indicates that the promises of God are not limited to individuals but encompass their descendants. The "promises of God" are contained in the Scriptures and are made in Christ ^[3]. They are confirmed by an oath and God is faithful to them ^[3].

The Old Testament frequently emphasizes the importance of family and the blessings associated with righteous living. For instance, Psalm 132:12 promises, "If your children will keep my covenant, my testimony that I will teach them, their children also will sit on your throne forever more" ^[7]. Matthew Henry interprets such promises as being confirmed by an oath, offering "strong consolation" to believers ^[9]. These promises relate to the establishment of both church and state, and to the lineage of David ^[9]. Charles Hodge notes that the promise attached to the commandment to honor parents has a theocratical form within the Decalogue ^[8].

The concept of God adopting believers into His family is also central to understanding these promises. Ephesians 1:5 states that God decided in advance to adopt believers into His own family, making them "heirs to all the promises God has made to his people" ^[11]. This adoption signifies a deep emotional and spiritual connection, where God's love for His children surpasses that of earthly parents ^[10]. John Calvin highlights that God's boundless love is demonstrated by calling believers His sons, and unlike earthly parents who might abandon their offspring, God will never abandon His ^[10].

The practice of family prayer is also linked to promises of divine presence and answers. Matthew 18:19-20 indicates that where two or three are gathered in Christ's name, He is present, and their requests will be granted ^[4]. This suggests that communal spiritual practices within the family unit are a means of experiencing God's promises.

While the Bible does not explicitly use the modern term "emotional wholeness," the promises concerning God's presence, adoption, and the blessings on righteous families contribute to a holistic sense of well-being. The "full assurance of understanding" (Colossians 2:2) is an unwavering conviction of the truth of Scripture, leading to joyful steadfastness ^{[1, 6]}. This assurance, produced by faith and made full by hope, is confirmed by love and is an effect of righteousness ^[2]. Such spiritual assurance contributes to the overall stability and well-being of individuals and, by extension, their families.

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Easton's Bible Dictionary “Easton's Bible Dictionary: Assurance — The resurrection of Jesus (Acts 17:31) is the "assurance" (Gr. pistis, generally rendered "faith") or pledge God has given that his revelation is true and worthy of acceptance. The "full assurance [Gr. plerophoria, full bearing'] of faith" (Heb. 10:22) is a fulness of faith in God which leaves no room for doubt. The "full assurance of understanding" (Col. 2:2) is an entire unwavering conviction of the truth of the declarations of Scripture, a joyful steadfastness on the part of any one of conviction that he has grasped the very truth. The "full assurance ”
Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Assurance — Produced by faith -- Eph 3:12; 2Ti 1:12; Heb 10:22. Made full by hope -- Heb 6:11,19. Confirmed by love -- 1Jo 3:14,19; 4:18. Is the effect of righteousness -- Isa 32:17. Is abundant in the understanding of the gospel -- Col 2:2; 1Th 1:5. Saints privileged to have, of Their election. -- Ps 4:3; 1Th 1:4. Their redemption. -- Job 19:25. Their adoption. -- Ro 8:16; 1Jo 3:2. Their salvation. -- Isa 12:2. Eternal life. -- 1Jo 5:13. The unalienable love of God. -- Ro 8:38,39. Union with God and Christ. -- 1Co 6:15; 2Co 13:5; Eph 5:30; 1Jo 2:5; 4:13. Peace with ”
Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Promises of God, The — Contained in the Scriptures -- Ro 1:2. Made in Christ -- Eph 3:6; 2Ti 1:1. Made to Christ. -- Ga 3:16,19. Abraham. -- Ge 12:3,7; Ga 3:16. Isaac. -- Ge 26:3,4. Jacob. -- Ge 28:14. David. -- 2Sa 7:12; Ps 89:3,4,35,36. The Israelites. -- Ro 9:4. The Fathers. -- Ac 13:32; 26:6,7. All who are called of God. -- Ac 2:39. Those who love him. -- Jas 1:12; 2:5. Confirmed by an oath -- Ps 89:3,4; Heb 8:6. Covenant established upon -- Heb 8:6. God is faithful to -- Tit 1:2; Heb 10:23. God remembers -- Ps 105:42; Lu 1:54,55. Are Good. -- 1Ki 8:56. Holy. -- ”
Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Prayer, Social and Family — Promise of answers to -- Mt 18:19. Christ promises to be present at -- Mt 18:20. Punishment for neglecting -- Jer 10:25. Exemplified Abram. -- Ge 12:5,8. Jacob. -- Ge 35:2,3,7. Joshua. -- Jos 24:15. David. -- 2Sa 6:20. Job. -- Job 1:5. The Disciples. -- Ac 1:13,14. Cornelius. -- Ac 10:2. Paul and Silas. -- Ac 16:25. Paul. -- Ac 20:36; 21:5.”
Acts “For the promise is to you, and to your children, and to all who are far off, even as many as the Lord our God will call to himself.” -- Acts 2:39”
Colossians “Colossians 2:2 (YLT) — that their hearts may be comforted, being united in love, and to all riches of the full assurance of the understanding, to the full knowledge of the secret of the God and Father, and of the Christ,”
Psalms “If your children will keep my covenant, my testimony that I will teach them, their children also will sit on your throne forever more.” -- Psalms 132:12”
CCEL (Reformed (Old Princeton)) “Charles Hodge, Systematic Theology, Vol. 3, section 47: 352 The Scriptural rule is simple and comprehensive. It does not go into unnecessary details. It prescribes the general rule of obedience. The exceptions to that rule must be such as justify themselves to a divinely enlightened conscience, i.e ., a conscience enlightened by the Word and Spirit of God. The general principle given in the Bible in all such cases is, “It is right to obey God rather than man.” The Promise. This commandment has a special promise attached to it. This promise has a theocratical form as it stands in the decalogue,”
Psalms (Nonconformist/Puritan) “Matthew Henry on Psalms 132:11: These are precious promises, confirmed by an oath, that the heirs of them might have strong consolation, Heb 6:17, Heb 6:18. It is all one whether we take them as pleas urged in the prayer or as answers returned to the prayer; believers know how to make use of the promises both ways, with them to speak to God and in them to hear what God the Lord will speak to us. These promises relate to the establishment both in church and state, both to the throne of the house of David and to the testimony of Israel fixed on Mount Zion. The promises concerning Zion's hill are”
CCEL (Reformed) “John Calvin, Institutes of the Christian Religion, section 75: where can a stronger affection be found than in a father. Hence, too, he could not have given us a stronger testimony of his boundless love than in calling us his sons. But his love towards us is so much the greater and more excellent than that of earthly parents, the farther he surpasses all men in goodness and mercy ( Isaiah 63:16 ). Earthly parents, laying aside all paternal affection, might abandon their offspring; he will never abandon us ( Ps. 27:10 ), seeing he cannot deny himself. For we have his promise, “If ye then, being”
Ephesians (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on Ephesians 1:5: 1:5 God decided in advance to adopt us into his own family: By his sovereign initiative, God embraces and blesses as his children those who trust in Christ. They become heirs to all the promises God has made to his people (see 1:11, 14; 2:19; Rom 8:15-17, 29-30; Gal 4:5).”

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