Dependence on the Lord Alone in Times of Suffering

This truth addresses the heart of one who feels isolated and forsaken, with no reliable counsel from others or even from oneself. Paul writes in Romans 8:28 that "all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose," which reminds us that even in the midst of suffering, God is sovereign and working for our good. The Bible teaches that we are not to rely solely on human counsel, for it is often flawed and untrustworthy, but rather we are to seek guidance from the Lord, who is the fountain of all wisdom. However, this does not mean that we reject all human counsel, for Scripture also teaches us to seek wisdom from godly advisors and to bear one another's burdens.

In Reformed theology, we recognize the importance of seeking guidance from Scripture and from faithful pastors and teachers who can provide wise and biblical counsel. While it is true that we cannot rely on the counsel of the ungodly, we are also not to isolate ourselves from the body of Christ, but rather to seek out faithful brothers and sisters who can provide support and guidance. The gospel reminds us that we are not alone in our suffering, for Christ has borne our burdens and has given us his Spirit to guide and comfort us.

Ultimately, our dependence is to be on the Lord, who is our rock and our salvation, but this does not mean that we reject all human relationships or counsel. Rather, we are to seek a balanced approach, recognizing the importance of Scripture, the guidance of the Holy Spirit, and the support of the Christian community, all while keeping our eyes fixed on Christ, who is our ultimate hope and salvation.