Developing Intimacy with the Heavenly Father in Prayer

Developing intimacy with God in prayer involves direct address and communion with the divine, often described as "converse with God" ^[2]. This intimacy is rooted in the understanding that God is a personal being who is both able and willing to engage with humanity ^[2]. The New Testament frequently portrays this relationship through the lens of a child addressing a parent, as seen in Jesus' instruction to pray, "Our Father in heaven" ^[5].

Prayer is presented as a means of drawing near to God ^{[2, 7]}, a privilege for those who seek him ^[6]. It can take various forms, including oral or mental, occasional or constant, and can be expressed through beseeching, pouring out one's soul, or crying to heaven ^{[2, 7]}. The act of prayer presupposes a belief in God's personality and his readiness to interact ^[2].

Access to God in prayer is understood to be mediated through Christ and empowered by the Holy Spirit ^[6]. The apostle Paul encourages believers to "strive together... in the prayers for me unto God" ^[3], highlighting the communal and intercessory aspects of prayer. This access is not automatic but is "of God" and is obtained through faith ^[6]. Reconciliation with God must precede this intimate communion ^{[4, 6]}.

The concept of communion with God extends to all three persons of the Trinity: the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit ^[4]. For instance, John Gill notes that the Holy Spirit is a fit object of prayer alongside the Father and the Son ^[14]. This communion is promised to the obedient ^[4] and is something saints desire ^[4]. It is experienced not only in prayer but also in meditation and in the Lord's Supper ^[4].

Jesus' own prayer life provides a model for intimate communion. His "high priestly prayer" in John 17 offers an "intimate glimpse into his heart," revealing his concerns for himself and for his followers ^[12]. In this prayer, Jesus assumes the traditional Jewish posture of looking up to heaven, likely with raised hands ^[12]. The practice of addressing God as "Father" was central to Jesus' prayers, a practice less common in Jewish tradition but emphasized by Jesus in nearly all his prayers ^[8]. This familial address underscores the personal and intimate nature of the relationship.

The Holy Spirit plays a crucial role in fostering this intimacy. Praying "in the Holy Ghost" involves holding fast to divine influence and making supplication under that influence ^[13]. This suggests that the Spirit guides and empowers prayer, ensuring it reaches God ^[13]. The apostle Paul frequently concludes his letters with prayers for peace and grace, often invoking the presence of the Lord Jesus with his people ^{[9, 10, 11]}. For example, in 1 Thessalonians, Paul prays for hearts to be "stable and unblameable in holiness before God even our Father, at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ with all his Saints" ^[1]. This highlights the ultimate goal of prayer: to be found holy and blameless before God.

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I Thessalonians “I Thessalonians 3:13 (Geneva1599) — To make your hearts stable and vnblameable in holines before God euen our Father, at the comming of our Lord Iesus Christ with all his Saints.”
Easton's Bible Dictionary “Easton's Bible Dictionary: Prayer — Is converse with God; the intercourse of the soul with God, not in contemplation or meditation, but in direct address to him. Prayer may be oral or mental, occasional or constant, ejaculatory or formal. It is a "beseeching the Lord" (Ex. 32:11); "pouring out the soul before the Lord" (1 Sam. 1:15); "praying and crying to heaven" (2 Chr. 32:20); "seeking unto God and making supplication" (Job 8:5); "drawing near to God" (Ps. 73:28); "bowing the knees" (Eph. 3:14). Prayer presupposes a belief in the personality of God, his ability and willingness to hold inter”
Romans “Romans 15:30 (YLT) — And I call upon you, brethren, through our Lord Jesus Christ, and through the love of the Spirit, to strive together with me in the prayers for me unto God,”
Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Communion With God — Is communion with the Father -- 1Jo 1:3. Is communion with the Son -- 1Co 1:9; 1Jo 1:3; Re 3:20. Is communion with the Holy Spirit -- 1Co 12:13; 2Co 13:14; Php 2:1. Reconciliation must precede -- Am 3:3. Holiness essential to -- 2Co 6:14-16. Promised to the obedient -- Joh 14:23. Saints Desire. -- Ps 42:1; Php 1:23. Have, in meditation. -- Ps 63:5,6. Have, in prayer. -- Php 4:6; Heb 4:16. Have, in the Lord's supper. -- 1Co 10:16. Should always enjoy. -- Ps 16:8; Joh 14:16-18. Exemplified Enoch. -- Ge 5:24. Noah. -- Ge 6:9. Abraham. -- Ge 18:33. J”
Matthew “Pray like this: ‘Our Father in heaven, may your name be kept holy. -- Matthew 6:9”
Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Access to God — Is of God -- Ps 65:4. Is by Christ -- Joh 10:7, 9; 14:6; Ro 5:2; Eph 2:13; 3:12; Heb 7:9, 25; 10:19; 1Pe 3:18. Is by the Holy Spirit -- Eph 2:18. Obtained through faith -- Ac 14:27; Ro 5:2; Eph 3:12; Heb 11:6. Follows upon reconciliation to God -- Col 1:21,22. In Prayer -- See Prayer. De 4:7; Mt 6:6; 1Pe 1:17. In his temple -- Ps 15:1; 27:4; 43:3; 65:4. To obtain mercy and grace -- Heb 4:16. A privilege of saints -- De 4:7; Ps 15:1; 23:6; 24:3,4. Saints have, with confidence -- Eph 3:12; Heb 4:16; 10:19,20. Vouchsafed to repenting sinners -- See Repen”
Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Prayer — Commanded -- Isa 55:6; Mt 7:7; Php 4:6. To be offered To God. -- Ps 5:2; Mt 4:10. To Christ. -- Lu 23:42; Ac 7:59. To the Holy Spirit. -- 2Th 3:5. Through Christ. -- Eph 2:18; Heb 10:19. God hears -- Ps 10:17; 65:2. God answers -- Ps 99:6; Isa 58:9. Is described as Bowing the knees. -- Eph 3:14. Looking up. -- Ps 5:3. Lifting up the soul. -- Ps 25:1. Lifting up the heart. -- La 3:41. Pouring out the heart. -- Ps 62:8. Pouring out the soul. -- 1Sa 1:15. Calling upon the name of the Lord. -- Ge 12:8; Ps 116:4; Ac 22:16. Crying to God. -- Ps 27:7; 34:6. Drawing”
Matthew (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on Matthew 6:9: 6:9-13 The Lord’s Prayer is similar in form to a common Jewish prayer (the qaddish). Jesus gave this prayer to his followers as a succinct expression of their new faith. 6:9 Pray like this: In contrast to the vain repetition of pagan prayers (6:7-8), “the Lord’s Prayer” is a model of simplicity. • Jews rarely addressed God as Father, but Jesus did so in every prayer but one (Mark 15:34). • may your name be kept holy: God’s name is profaned by the sin of his people (Isa 29:22-24; Jer 34:15-16; Ezek 39:7; Amos 2:7).”
2 Thessalonians (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on 2 Thessalonians 3:16: 3:16 The final prayer echoes Jesus’ blessing in John 14:27 (cp. Num 6:26) and contrasts with the situation these believers faced in Thessalonica (2 Thes 1:4-10; 1 Thes 2:14). Paul was always conscious of the Lord Jesus’ presence with his people (Rom 15:33; Phil 4:9).”
Philippians (Presbyterian) “Jamieson, Fausset & Brown on Philippians 4:23: (Gal 6:18). be with you all. Amen--The oldest manuscripts read, "Be with your spirit," and omit "Amen." Next: Colossians Introduction”
2 Thessalonians (Presbyterian) “Jamieson, Fausset & Brown on 2 Thessalonians 3:16: Lord of peace--Jesus Christ. The same title is given to Him as to the Father, "the GOD of peace" (Rom 15:33; Rom 16:20; Co2 13:11). An appropriate title in the prayer here, where the harmony of the Christian community was liable to interruption from the "disorderly." The Greek article requires the translation, "Give you the peace" which it is "His to give." "Peace" outward and inward, here and hereafter (Rom 14:17). always--unbroken, not changing with outward circumstances. by all means--Greek, "in every way." Most of the oldest manuscript”
John (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on John 17:1: 17:1-26 This chapter records Jesus’ longest prayer, which is often called his “high priestly prayer.” It provides an intimate glimpse into his heart. In this prayer, which closes the farewell that began at 13:31, Jesus expressed his own concerns to his Father (17:1-8) and then turned to concerns for the church and its future (17:9-26). 17:1 Jesus looked up to heaven, assuming the traditional Jewish posture for prayer (11:41; Ps 123:1). He probably also raised his hands (Exod 9:33; 17:11; Ps 28:2). Prayers like this were said aloud so that followers could hear (John ”
Jude (Methodist/Wesleyan) “Adam Clarke on Jude 1:20: Building up yourselves - Having the most holy faith - the Gospel of our Lord Jesus, and the writings of his apostles, for your foundation; founding all your expectations on these, and seeking from the Christ who is their sum and substance; all the grace and glory ye need. Praying in the Holy Ghost - Holding fast the Divine influence which ye have received, and under that influence making prayer and supplication to God. The prayer that is not sent up through the influence of the Holy Ghost is never likely to reach heaven.”
1 Thessalonians (Baptist/Reformed) “John Gill on 1 Thessalonians 3:12: And the Lord make you to increase,.... That is, the Lord the Spirit; so that the object of prayer, addressed by the apostle, is Father, Son, and Spirit, as in Rev 1:4. The Alexandrian copy reads "God". The Spirit is God, equally with the Father and the Son, and so a fit object of prayer with them, which otherwise he would not be. The request is, that he would cause these saints to increase in number, as the first churches greatly did: and in the gifts of the Spirit, which he divides to men severally as he will; and in his graces, as in faith, in hope, in holi”

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