God's Character as the Model for Christian Love
Christian love is fundamentally modeled after the character of God, particularly as revealed in the person and work of Jesus Christ. This divine character serves as the standard for believers' conduct and affections [1]. The apostle Paul exhorts believers to "be imitators of God" (Ephesians 5:1), a call rooted in the understanding that God's own nature is love [9, 10].
The concept of God's love is central to Christian theology. It is described as an inherent part of His character [5]. This love is sovereign, great, abiding, unfailing, unalienable, constraining, and everlasting [5]. It is also characterized as being irrespective of merit, extended even to perishing sinners, and specifically manifested towards His saints and the destitute [5]. The ultimate demonstration of God's love is seen in His sending His Son, Jesus Christ, as an atoning sacrifice for humanity's sins [7, 8]. This act underscores that divine love is not contingent on human initiative but originates with God Himself [7, 8].
Christian love, therefore, is not merely an emotion but an active principle [3]. It is commanded by God and Christ, and it is taught by God [3]. The love that Christians are called to exhibit is a reflection of God's own love, particularly Christ's sacrificial love [3, 12]. Jesus's love is especially shown in His offering Himself as a sacrifice [12]. This self-sacrificial love is the motivation and model for Christian love, as seen in passages like Philippians 2:5-8 [12]. The willingness to give up one's own desires for the good of others is a key emphasis in the description of Christian love [14].
The imitation of God's love involves several dimensions:
Love for God: This love is exhibited by saints and is motivated by Christ's personal excellence and His love for humanity [2]. It is manifested through seeking Him, obeying Him, ministering to Him, and preferring Him above all others [2]. This love should be sincere, from the soul, proportional to mercies received, and supreme [2, 4]. Devotedness to God, grounded in His mercies, goodness, call, and Christ's death, should be unreserved and persevering [6].
Love for Christ: This is a specific aspect of love for God. Christ is the especial object of God's love, and He abides in it [5]. Believers are called to love Christ sincerely [4]. The experience and personal knowledge of God's grace and love in Jesus Christ form the basis of the Christian life [15].
Love for Neighbor (Man): This love is "of God" and is commanded by both God and Christ [3]. It is to be exercised "after the example of Christ" [3]. This love is a fruit of the Spirit and an active, abiding principle [3]. It is considered the second great commandment, following the command to love God, and is the "end of the commandment" [3]. Without love, even supernatural gifts are considered meaningless [3]. The apostle John emphasizes that "God is love, and everyone who has love is in God, and God is in him" [10]. This love is perfected among believers, giving them confidence for the day of judgment, because in this world, they are to be like Christ [11].
The call to imitate God's love is not a call to mimic divine omnipotence or omniscience, but rather to conform to His moral attributes, particularly His holiness and love [13]. As Matthew Henry notes on Ephesians 5:1, "Pious persons should imitate the God whom they worship, as far as he has revealed himself as imitable by them" [13]. This imitation is a process of being conformed to Christ's image and reflecting God [15].
The biblical texts frequently link love with other virtues that characterize God and should characterize believers:
- Holiness: God's character is the standard for holiness, just as it is for love [1]. Believers are called to holiness, and Christ desires it for them [1]. Holiness is necessary for God's worship, and without it, no one will see God [1].
- Sincerity: Christ was an example of sincerity, and ministers should follow this example [4]. Sincerity should characterize love for God, love for Christ, service to God, faith, and love for one another [4]. It is opposed to fleshly wisdom and should mark a believer's entire conduct [4].
- Sacrifice: Christ's example demonstrates that real love involves self-sacrifice [16]. This means being genuinely concerned for others' needs and unselfishly giving time, effort, prayer, possessions, and even one's life to meet those needs [16]. This echoes Christ's offering of Himself as a sacrifice, which was a pleasing aroma to God [12].
The foundation for this imitative love is the Christian faith itself. The "prime article of the Christian faith" is that "the Father sent the Son to be the Saviour of the world" [17]. This foundational truth about God's love in sending Christ then "kindles love to the brethren" [17]. The apostle John further connects belief in Jesus as the Christ with being "born of God," implying that those who share this divine parentage are called to love one another [18].
The depth of Christ's love is described as "too great to understand fully," surpassing ordinary human love [15]. When believers experience and personally know this love, their lives are made complete, "filled with all the fullness of life and power by the presence of Christ within" [15]. This transformation enables them to reflect God's character more fully.
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- Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Holiness — Commanded -- Le 11:45; 20:7; Eph 5:8; Col 3:12; Ro 12:1. Christ Desires for his people. -- Joh 17:17. Effects, in his people. -- Eph 5:25-27. An example of. -- Heb 7:26; 1Pe 2:21,22. The character of God, the standard of -- Le 19:2; 1Pe 1:15,16; Eph 5:1. The character of Christ, the standard of -- Ro 8:29; 1Jo 2:6; Php 2:5. The gospel the way of -- Isa 35:8. Necessary to God's worship -- Ps 24:3,4. None shall see God without -- Eph 5:5; Heb 12:14. Saints Elected to. -- Ro 8:29; Eph 1:4. Called to. -- 1Th 4:7; 2Ti 1:9. New created in. -- Eph 4:24. Possess. ”
- Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Love to Christ — Exhibited by God -- Mt 17:5; Joh 5:20. Exhibited by saints -- 1Pe 1:8. His personal excellence is deserving of -- Song 5:9-16. His love to us a motive to -- 2Co 5:14. Manifested in Seeking him. -- Song 3:2. Obeying him. -- Joh 14:15,21,23. Ministering to him. -- Mt 27:55; 25:40. Preferring him to all others. -- Mt 10:37. Taking up the cross for Him. -- Mt 10:38. A characteristic of saints -- Song 1:4. An evidence of adoption -- Joh 8:42. Should be Sincere. -- Eph 6:24. With the soul. -- Song 1:7. In proportion to our mercies. -- Lu 7:47. Supreme. -- ”
- Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Love to Man — Is of God -- 1Jo 4:7. Commanded by God -- 1Jo 4:21. Commanded by Christ -- Joh 13:34; 15:12; 1Jo 3:23. After the example of Christ -- Joh 13:34; 15:12; Eph 5:2. Taught by God -- 1Th 4:9. Faith works by -- Ga 5:6. A fruit of the Spirit -- Ga 5:22; Col 1:8. Purity of heart leads to -- 1Pe 1:22. Explained -- 1Co 13:4-7. Is an active principle -- 1Th 1:3; Heb 6:10. Is an abiding principle -- 1Co 13:8,13. Is the second great commandment -- Mt 22:37-39. Is the end of the commandment -- 1Ti 1:5. Supernatural gifts are nothing without -- 1Co 13:1,2. The greates”
- Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Sincerity — Christ was an example of -- 1Pe 2:22. Ministers should be examples of -- Tit 2:7. Opposed to fleshly wisdom -- 2Co 1:12. Should characterise Our love to God. -- 2Co 8:8,24. Our love to Christ. -- Eph 6:24. Our service to God. -- Jos 24:14; Joh 4:23,24. Our faith. -- 1Ti 1:5. Our love to one another. -- Ro 12:9; 1Pe 1:22; 1Jo 3:18. Our whole conduct. -- 2Co 1:12. The preaching of the gospel. -- 2Co 2:17; 1Th 2:3-5. A characteristic of the doctrines of the gospel -- 1Pe 2:2. The gospel sometimes preached without -- Php 1:16. The wicked devoid of -- Ps 5:9; ”
- Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Love of God, The — Is a part of his character -- 2Co 13:11; 1Jo 4:8. Christ, the especial object of -- Joh 15:9; 17:26. Christ abides in -- Joh 15:10. Described as Sovereign. -- De 7:8; 10:15. Great. -- Eph 2:4. Abiding. -- Zep 3:17. Unfailing. -- Isa 49:15,16. Unalienable. -- Ro 8:39. Constraining. -- Ho 11:4. Everlasting. -- Jer 31:3. Irrespective of merit -- De 7:7; Job 7:17. Manifested towards Perishing sinners. -- Joh 3:16; Tit 3:4. His saints. -- Joh 16:27; 17:23; 2Th 2:16; 1Jo 4:16. The destitute. -- De 10:18. The cheerful giver. -- 2Co 9:7. Exhibited in The g”
- Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Devotedness to God — A characteristic of saints -- Job 23:12. Christ, an example of -- Joh 4:34; 17:4. Grounded upon The mercies of God. -- Ro 12:1. The goodness of God. -- 1Sa 12:24. The call of God. -- 1Th 2:12. The death of Christ. -- 2Co 5:15. Our creation. -- Ps 86:9. Our preservation. -- Isa 46:4. Our redemption. -- 1Co 6:19,20. Should be With our spirit. -- 1Co 6:20; 1Pe 4:6. With our bodies. -- Ro 12:1; 1Co 6:20. With our members. -- Ro 6:12,13; 1Pe 4:2. With our substance. -- Ex 22:29; Pr 3:9. Unreserved. -- Mt 6:24; Lu 14:33. Abounding. -- 1Th 4:1. Persever”
- 1 John “In this is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son as the atoning sacrifice for our sins. -- 1 John 4:10”
- I John “I John 4:10 (BSB) — And love consists in this: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son as the atoning sacrifice for our sins.”
- 1 John “We know and have believed the love which God has for us. God is love, and he who remains in love remains in God, and God remains in him. -- 1 John 4:16”
- I John “I John 4:16 (BBE) — And we have seen and had faith in the love which God has for us. God is love, and everyone who has love is in God, and God is in him.”
- I John “I John 4:17 (BSB) — In this way, love has been perfected among us, so that we may have confidence on the day of judgment; for in this world we are just like Him.”
- Ephesians (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on Ephesians 5:2: 5:2 Christ’s love is shown especially in his offering himself as a sacrifice for us (cp. 5:25; John 15:13; Rom 5:8). Christian love is motivated by and modeled after Christ’s sacrificial love (see Phil 2:5-8). • Paul draws on Old Testament imagery, where the smell of a burning sacrifice was a pleasing aroma to God (see Lev 1:9; 2:2; cp. Rom 12:1).”
- Ephesians (Nonconformist/Puritan) “Matthew Henry on Ephesians 5:1: Here we have the exhortation to mutual love, or to Christian charity. The apostle had been insisting on this in the former chapter, and particularly in the last verses of it, to which the particle therefore refers, and connects what he had said there with what is contained in these verses, thus: "Because God, for Christ's sake, has forgiven you, therefore be you followers of God, or imitators of him;" for so the word signifies. Pious persons should imitate the God whom they worship, as far as he has revealed himself as imitable by them. They must conform themsel”
- 1 Corinthians (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on 1 Corinthians 13:4: 13:4-7 This description of Christian love emphasizes the willingness to give up one’s own desires for the good of others (see also 8:1–10:33; Rom 5:6-8; 15:3; 2 Cor 8:9; Phil 2:4-8).”
- Ephesians (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on Ephesians 3:19: 3:19 May you experience (literally know) the love of Christ: The whole Christian life is based on the experience and personal knowledge of God’s grace and love in Jesus Christ (see Rom 12:1). • it is too great to understand fully: Christ’s love is much greater than ordinary human love (see Rom 5:6-8). • The believer’s life is made complete when it is filled with all the fullness of life and power by the presence of Christ within (see Eph 1:23; Gal 2:20; Col 1:27). The believer then is conformed to his image and reflects God (see Eph 4:14, 24; 5:1-2; Rom 8:29; 2”
- 1 John (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on 1 John 3:16: 3:16-18 Christ’s example shows that real love involves self-sacrifice. We do this by becoming truly concerned about the needs of others and by unselfishly giving time, effort, prayer, possessions, and even our lives to supply those needs.”
- 1 John (Nonconformist/Puritan) “Matthew Henry on 1 John 4:14: Since faith in Christ works love to God, and love to God must kindle love to the brethren, the apostle here confirms the prime article of the Christian faith as the foundation of such love. Here, I. He proclaims the fundamental article of the Christian religion, which is so representative of the love of God: And we have seen, and do testify, that the Father sent the Son to be the Saviour of the world, Jo1 4:14. We here see, 1. The Lord Jesus's relation to God; he is Son to the Father, such a Son as no one else is, and so as to be God with the Father. 2. His relati”
- 1 John (Nonconformist/Puritan) “Matthew Henry on 1 John 5:1: I. The apostle having, in the conclusion of the last chapter, as was there observed, urged Christian love upon those two accounts, as suitable to Christian profession and as suitable to the divine command, here adds a third: Such love is suitable, and indeed demanded, by their eminent relation; our Christian brethren or fellow-believers are nearly related to God; they are his children: Whosoever believeth that Jesus is the Christ is born of God, Jo1 5:1. Here the Christian brother is, 1. Described by his faith; he that believeth that Jesus is the Christ - that he i”