Mending Broken Relationships through God's Redemption and Trust
Mending broken relationships, both with God and with other people, is a central theme in biblical theology, often understood through the concepts of redemption and reconciliation. Redemption refers to the act of purchasing back something that was lost through the payment of a ransom [2]. This concept is applied to humanity's relationship with God, where Christ's sacrificial death serves as the ransom, freeing believers from the bondage of sin and the curse of the law [5]. The Greek term apolutrosis, translated as redemption, consistently carries the idea of a price paid [2].
Reconciliation, closely related to redemption, signifies a change from enmity to friendship, involving a transformation in both parties previously at odds [1]. In the context of humanity's relationship with God, reconciliation means laying aside enmity and yielding to God with confidence and love [1]. The Apostle Paul beseeches believers to "be reconciled to God" (2 Corinthians 5:20), emphasizing a change in human disposition towards God [1]. This reconciliation is made possible through Christ's atoning work, as he acts as the mediator between God and humanity [6]. Ephesians 2:16 states that Christ reconciles both parties to God in one body through the cross, thereby destroying hostility [3]. Through trust in Christ Jesus, individuals can be reconciled to God, a process enabled by his sacrificial blood [10]. God has entrusted believers with the "ministry of reconciliation," calling people to accept what God has done to restore their relationship with Him [11].
Broken relationships among people are also addressed within this framework. The believing community is called to pursue reconciliation and forgive willingly, rather than allowing fractures and unreconciled relationships [9]. When one believer sins against another, love requires a private approach to point out the offense, with public involvement only as a last resort [9]. A right relationship with God is understood to produce right relationships with people, implying that a wrong relationship with others indicates a wrong relationship with the Lord [12]. Simple acts of Christian kindness can sometimes lead a hostile person to repentance and restore fellowship [13].
Trust in God's loving-kindness is foundational for both personal healing and the mending of relationships [4]. God is depicted as one who "heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds" (Psalm 147:3). Afflictions and brokenness can even serve to turn individuals back to God, leading them to seek Him in prayer and convincing them of sin [7]. The people whom God has redeemed are given confidence for the future, assured that His unfailing love and might mean He will keep His promises [14]. This assurance, produced by faith and confirmed by love, extends to their redemption, adoption, and eternal life [8]. The prophet Hosea encourages a return to the Lord, stating, "For He has torn us to pieces, but He will heal us; He has wounded us, but He will bind up our wounds" (Hosea 6:1).
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- Easton's Bible Dictionary “Easton's Bible Dictionary: Reconcilation — A change from enmity to friendship. It is mutual, i.e., it is a change wrought in both parties who have been at enmity. (1.) In Col. 1:21, 22, the word there used refers to a change wrought in the personal character of the sinner who ceases to be an enemy to God by wicked works, and yields up to him his full confidence and love. In 2 Cor. 5:20 the apostle beseeches the Corinthians to be "reconciled to God", i.e., to lay aside their enmity. (2.) Rom. 5:10 refers not to any change in our disposition toward God, but to God himself, as the party reconcile”
- Easton's Bible Dictionary “Easton's Bible Dictionary: Redemption — The purchase back of something that had been lost, by the payment of a ransom. The Greek word so rendered is apolutrosis, a word occurring nine times in Scripture, and always with the idea of a ransom or price paid, i.e., redemption by a lutron (see Matt. 20:28; Mark 10:45). There are instances in the LXX. Version of the Old Testament of the use of lutron in man's relation to man (Lev. 19:20; 25:51; Ex. 21:30; Num. 35:31, 32; Isa. 45:13; Prov. 6:35), and in the same sense of man's relation to God (Num. 3:49; 18:15). There are many passages in the New Tes”
- Ephesians “et reconciliet ambos in uno corpore, Deo per crucem, interficiens inimicitias in semetipso. -- Ephesians 2:16”
- Psalms “But I trust in your loving kindness. My heart rejoices in your salvation. -- Psalms 13:5”
- Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Redemption — Defined -- 1Co 6:20; 7:23. Is of God -- Isa 44:21-23; 43:1; Lu 1:68. Is by Christ -- Mt 20:28; Ga 3:13. Is by the blood of Christ -- Ac 20:28; Heb 9:12; 1Pe 1:19; Re 5:9. Christ sent to effect -- Ga 4:4,5. Christ is made, to us -- 1Co 1:30. Is from The bondage of the law. -- Ga 4:5. The curse of the law. -- Ga 3:13. The power of sin. -- Ro 6:18,22. The power of the grave. -- Ps 49:15. All troubles. -- Ps 25:22. All iniquity. -- Ps 130:8; Tit 2:14. All evil. -- Ge 48:16. The present evil world. -- Ga 1:4. Vain conversation. -- 1Pe 1:18. Enemies. -- Ps 106”
- Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Christ, the Mediator — In virtue of his atonement -- Eph 2:13-18; Heb 9:15; 12:24. The only one between God and man -- 1Ti 2:5. Of the gospel covenant -- Heb 8:6; 12:24. Typified Moses. -- De 5:5; Ga 3:19. Aaron. -- Nu 16:48.”
- Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Afflictions Made Beneficial — In promoting the glory of God -- Joh 9:1-3; 11:3,4; 21:18,19. In exhibiting the power and faithfulness of God -- Ps 34:19,20; 2Co 4:8-11. In teaching us the will of God -- Ps 119:71; Isa 26:9; Mic 6:9. In turning us to God -- De 4:30,31; Ne 1:8,9; Ps 78:34; Isa 10:20,21; Ho 2:6,7. In keeping us from again departing from God -- Job 34:31,32; Isa 10:20; Eze 14:10,11. In leading us to seek God in prayer -- Jdj 4:3; Jer 31:18; La 2:17-19; Ho 5:14,15; Jon 2:1. In convincing us of sin -- Job 36:8,9; Ps 119:67; Lu 15:16-18. In leading us to con”
- Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Assurance — Produced by faith -- Eph 3:12; 2Ti 1:12; Heb 10:22. Made full by hope -- Heb 6:11,19. Confirmed by love -- 1Jo 3:14,19; 4:18. Is the effect of righteousness -- Isa 32:17. Is abundant in the understanding of the gospel -- Col 2:2; 1Th 1:5. Saints privileged to have, of Their election. -- Ps 4:3; 1Th 1:4. Their redemption. -- Job 19:25. Their adoption. -- Ro 8:16; 1Jo 3:2. Their salvation. -- Isa 12:2. Eternal life. -- 1Jo 5:13. The unalienable love of God. -- Ro 8:38,39. Union with God and Christ. -- 1Co 6:15; 2Co 13:5; Eph 5:30; 1Jo 2:5; 4:13. Peace with ”
- Matthew (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on Matthew 18:15: 18:15-35 The believing community must not be fractured into rival parties and unreconciled relationships. Its members are to pursue reconciliation (18:15-20) and forgive willingly (18:21-35). At times, however, stern discipline may be necessary (18:17). 18:15-20 Restoration begins privately and should be made public only as a last resort. 18:15 If another believer sins, love requires us to go privately and point out the offense (Lev 19:17; Luke 17:3; Gal 6:1; 1 Tim 5:20; Titus 3:10).”
- Ephesians (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on Ephesians 2:13: 2:13 Only by being united with Christ Jesus through trust in him can a person be reconciled to God (see Rom 5:10-12; 2 Cor 5:18-21). The blood of Christ—his sacrificial death—makes this possible (see Eph 1:7; Rom 3:24-25; 5:9; Col 1:20; cp. Heb 9:12-15; 1 Pet 1:19; 1 Jn 1:7; Rev 1:5; 5:9).”
- 2 Corinthians (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on 2 Corinthians 5:18: 5:18-21 God entrusts to his servants the message and ministry of reconciliation through Christ. • God has given us this task of reconciling people: Paul is speaking of his own ministry, but sharing this wonderful message is the responsibility of all believers. Christ’s ambassadors call people to accept what God has done so they can be made right with God through Christ. • Christ paid the penalty for people’s sins—to take away all that stood between God and humans and to make us right with God.”
- Numbers (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on Numbers 5:6: 5:6 Doing something wrong to another human being is the same as betraying—literally breaking faith with—the Lord (cp. 5:8). A right relationship with God produces right relationships with people; a wrong relationship with others shows a wrong relationship with the Lord.”
- Romans (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on Romans 12:20: 12:20-21 A simple act of Christian kindness can often bring a hostile person to repentance before God and restore fellowship between people.”
- Exodus (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on Exodus 15:13: 15:13-18 The people God has redeemed have confidence for the future. In light of what the Lord had done in rescuing Israel from his enemies, there was no question that he would be able to carry through on his promise to take them safely into the Promised Land. 15:13 In light of God’s unfailing love and his might, there is no reason to doubt that he will be able to keep his promises. “Unfailing love” is a translation of the Hebrew word khesed, which speaks of the undeserved kindness and loyalty of a superior to an inferior. It is the most frequent descriptor of Go”