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Reflection of God's Character in Friendships and Community

The concept of friendship and community within a Christian framework is deeply rooted in the character of God, reflecting divine attributes such as love, unity, and reconciliation. Believers are called to imitate God's character in their relationships, fostering fellowship that mirrors the divine [13].

Friendship with God

Friendship with God is presented as the highest possible relationship between God and a person [11]. This fellowship involves knowing God's will, agreeing with His designs, experiencing mutual affection, enjoying His presence, conforming to His image, and participating in His felicity [1]. Biblical figures like Abraham and Moses were called "friends of God" (Exodus 33:11; 2 Chronicles 20:7; Isaiah 41:8; James 2:23) [11]. The name Theophilus, to whom the Gospel of Luke and the Acts of the Apostles are addressed, means "friend of God" [7].

Jesus Himself refers to His disciples as friends, particularly in the context of His ultimate sacrifice: "Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends" (John 15:13). This act of self-giving love is the foundation of their friendship with Him [12]. Those who obey Jesus demonstrate their friendship with Him [11]. This relationship is not merely one-sided; God shows His friendship through His early love, choice, and provisions of grace, sending His Son to save, and visiting believers in ways of providence and grace, disclosing His secrets to them [10].

Communion with God is exemplified by Christ (Luke 19:41-42) and is inseparable from love for God (1 John 3:17; John 4:20) [3]. This communion is a profound spiritual intimacy with the Father and the Son, experienced through the power of the Spirit, leading to transformation (John 14:20, 23; 1 John 4:13) [15].

Community and Fellowship Among Believers

The reflection of God's character extends to the community of believers, who are called to live in unity and mutual support. The early Christian community, as described in the New Testament, engaged in fellowship through shared duties, ordinances, grace, love, and joy [1]. This included mutual interest in spiritual and temporal matters, and even sharing in sufferings [1].

The apostle Paul exhorts believers to "be followers of God, as dear children; and walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us" (Ephesians 5:1-2). This implies an imitation of God's character, particularly His love and forgiveness, in their interactions with one another [13]. The unity among believers is an outgrowth of their union with Jesus, which is modeled on the oneness of the Father and the Son (John 17:21) [15]. This unity is crucial because the conduct and relationships among disciples reflect the credibility of Christ to the world; disunity, infighting, and intolerance can undermine their testimony [15].

The concept of reconciliation, a change from enmity to friendship, is central to understanding community. While it primarily refers to humanity's reconciliation with God through Christ (Romans 5:10; 2 Corinthians 5:20), it also implies a call for believers to lay aside enmity among themselves [5].

Practical Expressions of God's Character in Community

The Bible provides numerous examples and exhortations for how God's character should be reflected in community:

The communal life of believers, therefore, is not merely a social gathering but a profound theological statement. It is a living demonstration of God's character, particularly His love, unity, and redemptive purpose, made visible through the relationships and actions of His people [15].

Sources

  1. Easton's Bible Dictionary “Easton's Bible Dictionary: Fellowship — (1.) With God, consisting in the knowledge of his will (Job 22:21; John 17:3); agreement with his designs (Amos 3:2); mutual affection (Rom. 8: 38, 39); enjoyment of his presence (Ps. 4:6); conformity to his image (1 John 2:6; 1:6); and participation of his felicity (1 John 1:3, 4; Eph. 3:14-21). (2.) Of saints with one another, in duties (Rom. 12:5; 1 Cor. 12:1; 1 Thess. 5:17, 18); in ordinances (Heb. 10:25; Acts 2:46); in grace, love, joy, etc. (Mal. 3:16; 2 Cor. 8:4); mutual interest, spiritual and temporal (Rom. 12:4, 13; Heb. 13:16); in sufferings (”
  2. Proverbs “Proverbs 3:4 (YLT) — And find grace and good understanding In the eyes of God and man.”
  3. Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Communion With God — Christ set an example of -- Lu 19:41,42. Exhortation to -- Ro 12:15; 1Pe 3:8. Exercise towards The afflicted. -- Job 6:14; Heb 13:3. The chastened. -- Isa 22:4; Jer 9:1. Enemies. -- Ps 35:13. The poor. -- Pr 19:17. The weak. -- 2Co 11:29; Ga 6:2. Saints. -- 1Co 12:25,26. Inseparable from love to God -- 1Jo 3:17; Joh 4:20. Motives to The compassion of God. -- Mt 13:27,33. The sense of our infirmities. -- Heb 5:2. The wicked made to feel, for saints -- Ps 106:46. Promise to those who show -- Pr 19:17; Mt 10:42. Illustrated -- Lu 10:33; 15:20. Exemp”
  4. Dead Sea Scrolls “Community Rule (Serekh ha-Yahad) (c. 100-75 BCE), section 1: THE COMMUNITY RULE Translated by G. Vermes 1QS COL.I . . . Book of the Community Rule, that they may seek 2. God with a whole heart and soul. and do good and right before Him as 3. He commanded by the hand of Moses and all His servants the Prophets; that they may love 4. all that He has chosen and hate all that he has rejected; that they may abstain from all evil and 5. hold fast to all good; that they may practise truth, righteousness, and justice 6. upon earth and no longer stubbornly follow a sinful heart and lustful eyes committi”
  5. Easton's Bible Dictionary “Easton's Bible Dictionary: Reconcilation — A change from enmity to friendship. It is mutual, i.e., it is a change wrought in both parties who have been at enmity. (1.) In Col. 1:21, 22, the word there used refers to a change wrought in the personal character of the sinner who ceases to be an enemy to God by wicked works, and yields up to him his full confidence and love. In 2 Cor. 5:20 the apostle beseeches the Corinthians to be "reconciled to God", i.e., to lay aside their enmity. (2.) Rom. 5:10 refers not to any change in our disposition toward God, but to God himself, as the party reconcile”
  6. Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Afflictions Made Beneficial — In promoting the glory of God -- Joh 9:1-3; 11:3,4; 21:18,19. In exhibiting the power and faithfulness of God -- Ps 34:19,20; 2Co 4:8-11. In teaching us the will of God -- Ps 119:71; Isa 26:9; Mic 6:9. In turning us to God -- De 4:30,31; Ne 1:8,9; Ps 78:34; Isa 10:20,21; Ho 2:6,7. In keeping us from again departing from God -- Job 34:31,32; Isa 10:20; Eze 14:10,11. In leading us to seek God in prayer -- Jdj 4:3; Jer 31:18; La 2:17-19; Ho 5:14,15; Jon 2:1. In convincing us of sin -- Job 36:8,9; Ps 119:67; Lu 15:16-18. In leading us to con”
  7. Hitchcock's Bible Names “Hitchcock's Bible Names: Theophilus — friend of God”
  8. Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Holiness — Commanded -- Le 11:45; 20:7; Eph 5:8; Col 3:12; Ro 12:1. Christ Desires for his people. -- Joh 17:17. Effects, in his people. -- Eph 5:25-27. An example of. -- Heb 7:26; 1Pe 2:21,22. The character of God, the standard of -- Le 19:2; 1Pe 1:15,16; Eph 5:1. The character of Christ, the standard of -- Ro 8:29; 1Jo 2:6; Php 2:5. The gospel the way of -- Isa 35:8. Necessary to God's worship -- Ps 24:3,4. None shall see God without -- Eph 5:5; Heb 12:14. Saints Elected to. -- Ro 8:29; Eph 1:4. Called to. -- 1Th 4:7; 2Ti 1:9. New created in. -- Eph 4:24. Possess. ”
  9. Dead Sea Scrolls “Community Rule (Serekh ha-Yahad) (c. 100-75 BCE), section 18: and in the abode of distress and desolation. I will meditate on His power and will lean on His mercies all day long. 17. I know that judgement of all the living is in His hand, and that all His deeds are truth. I will praise Him when distress is unleashed and will magnify Him also because of His salvation. 18. I will pay to no man the reward of evil; I will pursue him with goodness. For judgement of all the living is with God and it is He who will render to man his reward. 19. I will not envy in a spirit of wickedness, my soul shall”
  10. Proverbs (Baptist/Reformed) “John Gill on Proverbs 18:24: A man that hath friends must show himself friendly,.... Friendship ought to be mutual and reciprocal, as between David and Jonathan; a man that receives friendship ought to return it, or otherwise he is guilty of great ingratitude. This may be spiritually applied; a believer is "a man of friends" (b), as it may be rendered; he has many friends: God is his friend, as appears by his early love to him, his choice of him, and provisions of grace for him; by sending his son to save him; by visiting him, not only in a way of providence, but of grace; by disclosing his se”
  11. John (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on John 15:14: 15:14-16 Both Abraham and Moses were called friends of God (Exod 33:11; 2 Chr 20:7; Isa 41:8; Jas 2:23). This is the highest relationship possible between God and a person. Jesus chooses his friends (John 15:16), who demonstrate their friendship by obeying him.”
  12. John (Baptist/Reformed) “John Gill on John 15:13: Ye are my friends,.... This is an application of the foregoing passage, and more, clearly explains it. The character of "friends", is applied to the disciples of Christ; and belongs, not only to his apostles, but to all that love him, believe in him, and obey him; to whom he has showed himself friendly, by laying down his life for them: for this clearly shows, that Christ had respect in the former words, to his own laying down his life for his people, in consequence of his great love to them; whereby he has made them friends, and who appear to be so by their cheerful o”
  13. Ephesians (Nonconformist/Puritan) “Matthew Henry on Ephesians 5:1: Here we have the exhortation to mutual love, or to Christian charity. The apostle had been insisting on this in the former chapter, and particularly in the last verses of it, to which the particle therefore refers, and connects what he had said there with what is contained in these verses, thus: "Because God, for Christ's sake, has forgiven you, therefore be you followers of God, or imitators of him;" for so the word signifies. Pious persons should imitate the God whom they worship, as far as he has revealed himself as imitable by them. They must conform themsel”
  14. 1 John (Baptist/Reformed) “John Gill on 1 John 4:13: Hereby know we that we dwell in him, and he in us,.... That there is a communion between God and us, and a communication of his love and grace to us, and an exercise of grace upon him; for God dwells in his people by his Spirit and grace, and they dwell in him by the exercise of faith and love upon him: and this is known, because he hath given us of his Spirit: not of the essence and nature of the Spirit, which is the same with the nature of the Father and of the Son, and is incommunicable; but either of the gifts of the Spirit, which are divided to every man as he ”
  15. John (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on John 17:21: 17:21 For believers, becoming one with one another is an outgrowth of the union they enjoy with Jesus himself, a union modeled on the oneness of the Father and the Son. • may they be in us: Through the power of the Spirit, believers would experience a profound spiritual intimacy with the Father and the Son and be transformed (14:20, 23; 1 Jn 4:13). • Disciples of Jesus represent him, so their conduct and relationships with each other reflect the credibility of Christ in the world. When there is disunity, infighting, and intolerance, their testimony to the world is ”
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