The Covenant Nature of Marriage in Scripture
Marriage, in biblical understanding, is fundamentally a covenant relationship, divinely instituted and intended to be a lifelong bond [1, 3]. The concept of covenant (Hebrew: berith, Greek: diatheke) signifies a contract or agreement between two parties, often involving solemn oaths and sometimes symbolized by the cutting of animals [2, 5, 6]. This understanding of covenant is applied to the marital union, emphasizing its sacred and binding nature.
The institution of marriage dates back to creation in Paradise, as described in Genesis 2:18-24 [3, 4]. Here, God establishes marriage for the happiness of humanity, for procreation, and for raising godly offspring [1]. Jesus Himself confirmed this original charter as the basis for all regulations concerning marriage (Matthew 19:4-5) [3]. From Genesis 2:24, several principles emerge: the unity of husband and wife, the indissolubility of the bond, and the original design for monogamy [4]. While polygamy and concubinage appeared later in the patriarchal age and were acknowledged in Mosaic law, monogamy was the initial and confirmed standard [3].
The covenant aspect of marriage is explicitly stated in Malachi 2:14, where God is called a "witness between thee and the wife of thy youth" [11]. The wife is referred to as the "wife of thy covenant," indicating that the marriage is not merely a social contract but a sacred agreement made before God [11]. This covenant is so profound that a sin against one's wife is considered a sin against God [11]. The prophet Malachi highlights that God desires "godly seed" from this covenant union (Malachi 2:15) [1].
Throughout Scripture, the covenant relationship of marriage also serves as a powerful symbol for the relationship between God and His people [9, 10]. For instance, the prophet Ezekiel uses the imagery of marriage to describe the covenant between God and Israel, with adultery symbolizing Israel's spiritual unfaithfulness [9, 10]. Similarly, the New Testament draws parallels between the marriage of Christ and the Church and the human marital covenant (Ephesians 5:22-33) [9, 10].
The binding nature of a covenant is further illustrated by examples such as Job's covenant with his eyes not to gaze with desire at a virgin (Job 31:1) [7]. In the context of vows, Numbers 30:13 states that a husband may establish or void his wife's vow or binding oath, underscoring the husband's authority within the covenant framework of marriage [8]. The unalterable nature of a confirmed covenant is also noted in Galatians 3:15 [6].
The biblical emphasis on marriage as a covenant underscores its permanence and the divine involvement in its establishment. It is not merely a human agreement but a sacred bond witnessed and upheld by God, reflecting His own covenant faithfulness [9, 10].
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- Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Marriage — Divinely instituted -- Ge 2:24. A covenant relationship -- Mal 2:4. Designed for The happiness of man. -- Ge 2:18. Increasing the human population. -- Ge 1:28; 9:1. Raising up godly seed. -- Mal 2:15. Preventing fornication. -- 1Co 7:2. The expectation of the promised seed of the woman an incentive to, in the early age -- Ge 3:15; 4:1. Lawful in all -- 1Co 7:2,28; 1Ti 5:14. Honourable for all -- Heb 13:4. Should be only in the Lord -- 1Co 7:39. Expressed by Joining together. -- Mt 19:6. Making affinity. -- 1Ki 3:1. Taking to wife. -- Ex 2:1. Giving daughte”
- Easton's Bible Dictionary “Easton's Bible Dictionary: Covenant — A contract or agreement between two parties. In the Old Testament the Hebrew word berith is always thus translated. Berith is derived from a root which means "to cut," and hence a covenant is a "cutting," with reference to the cutting or dividing of animals into two parts, and the contracting parties passing between them, in making a covenant (Gen. 15; Jer. 34:18, 19). The corresponding word in the New Testament Greek is diatheke, which is, however, rendered "testament" generally in the Authorized Version. It ought to be rendered, just as the word berith o”
- Easton's Bible Dictionary “Easton's Bible Dictionary: Marriage — Was instituted in Paradise when man was in innocence (Gen. 2:18-24). Here we have its original charter, which was confirmed by our Lord, as the basis on which all regulations are to be framed (Matt. 19:4, 5). It is evident that monogamy was the original law of marriage (Matt. 19:5; 1 Cor. 6:16). This law was violated in after times, when corrupt usages began to be introduced (Gen. 4:19; 6:2). We meet with the prevalence of polygamy and concubinage in the patriarchal age (Gen. 16:1-4; 22:21-24; 28:8, 9; 29:23-30, etc.). Polygamy was acknowledged in the Mosa”
- Smith's Bible Dictionary “Smith's Bible Dictionary: Marriage — + Its origin and history .--The institution of marriage dates from the time of man's original creation. (Genesis 2:18-25) From (Genesis 2:24) we may evolve the following principles: (1) The unity of man and wife, as implied in her being formed out of man. (2) The indissolubleness of the marriage bond, except on; the strongest grounds, Comp. (Matthew 19:9) (3) Monogamy, as the original law of marriage (4) The social equality of man and wife. (5) The subordination of the wife to the husband. (1 Corinthians 11:8,9; 1 Timothy 2:13) (6) The respective duties of ”
- Smith's Bible Dictionary “Smith's Bible Dictionary: Covenant — The Heb. berith means primarily "a cutting," with reference to the custom of cutting or dividing animals in two and passing between the parts in ratifying a covenant. (Genesis 15; Jeremiah 34:18,19) In the New Testament the corresponding word is diathece (diatheke), which is frequently translated testament in the Authorized Version. In its biblical meaning two parties the word is used-- + Of a covenant between God and man; e.g. God covenanted with Noah, after the flood, that a like judgment should not be repeated. It is not precisely like a covenant between”
- Torrey's Topical Textbook “Torrey's Topical Textbook: Covenants — Agreements between two parties -- Ge 26:28; Da 11:6. Designed for Establishing friendship. -- 1Sa 18:3. Procuring assistance in war. -- 1Ki 15:18,19. Mutual protection. -- Ge 26:28,29; 31:50-52. Establishing peace. -- Jos 9:15,16. Promoting commerce. -- 1Ki 5:6-11. Selling land. -- Ge 23:14-16. Conditions of Clearly specified. -- 1Sa 11:1,2. Conformed by oath. -- Ge 21:23,31; 26:31. Witnessed. -- Ge 23:17,18; Ru 4:9-11. Written and sealed. -- Ne 9:38; 10:1. God often called to witness -- Ge 31:50,53. When confirmed, unalterable -- Ga 3:15. Made by passing”
- Job “Job 31:1 (BSB) — “I have made a covenant with my eyes. How then could I gaze with desire at a virgin?”
- Numbers “Every vow, and every binding oath to afflict the soul, her husband may establish it, or her husband may make it void. -- Numbers 30:13”
- Ezek (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on Ezek 23:4: 23:4 Marriage is commonly used in the Bible as a symbol for the covenant relationship between God and his people (e.g., Isa 54:1-8; Eph 5:22-33). Adultery symbolizes Israel’s spiritual unfaithfulness (e.g., Hos 1–3). God makes his covenants in spite of, not because of, his people’s character (Rom 5:6-11).”
- Ezekiel (Protestant academic) “Tyndale House on Ezekiel 23:4: 23:4 Marriage is commonly used in the Bible as a symbol for the covenant relationship between God and his people (e.g., Isa 54:1-8; Eph 5:22-33). Adultery symbolizes Israel’s spiritual unfaithfulness (e.g., Hos 1–3). God makes his covenants in spite of, not because of, his people’s character (Rom 5:6-11).”
- Malachi (Presbyterian) “Jamieson, Fausset & Brown on Malachi 2:14: Wherefore?--Why does God reject our offerings? Lord . . . witness between thee and . . . wife--(so Gen 31:49-50). of thy youth--The Jews still marry very young, the husband often being but thirteen years of age, the wife younger (Pro 5:18; Isa 54:6). wife of thy covenant--not merely joined to thee by the marriage covenant generally, but by the covenant between God and Israel, the covenant-people, whereby a sin against a wife, a daughter of Israel, is a sin against God [MOORE]. Marriage also is called "the covenant of God" (Pro 2:17), and to it t”